When you see life from a moment to moment basis and start living life in this way, then suddenly you will experience the sweetness in everything around you, especially in the people around you. These people hold certain relationship with you, but the judgement you carry with your past experiences will make experience of this relationship either sweet or nasty or full of hatred.

When I opened my eyes in the world and started to grasp life I saw people judging other’s even if they don’t know them, creating hatred within, bullying for their own needs etc. So I started to see people like this with full of idiotic judgement and opinions, making myself into a negative nut which threw me into the pit called depression.

When you go into this pit then you, suddenly stop relating with everything around you and then there are only two choices either to end everything or start over. Both are a tough decisions to make but starting over is a good one. When you start over then you start seeing life in a different perspective, leaving all the past impressions aside. And this will start affecting all the relation that you hold. You will see everything is just for this moment and once you get into the next moment the last moment is just past.

Same thing happened to me, I saw all this relationship that I hold with everything around me is just momentarily. This moment I am with them and next moment puff, I am Dead this will be a possibility so then I started to enjoy everything and did best what I can do for them. When you taste this moment then you will understand, what the other people who is with you in this moment mean to you. Because there are 7.9 billion people in the world and they are with you here at this moment. It doesn’t matter what they think and experience, but how you are within you is your decision.

So when you experience this then dealing outside become easy, someone told some nasty thing about you then you can respond or not respond it’s your choice. But what’s within you won’t be changing and you will see them as a clear mirror. So when you see them as they are, then every relation will become a way for liberation your friendships, your love, your siblings etc just a door for the liberation. Whether you want to make the relationships as a barrier or a door its upon you.

Relationship

This Sweetness of life,

Shared makes my bond with others strong within,

Oh beloved,

Come and see the life with this sweetness.

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